Sherry Morehart

For the record, the only reason Bailey didn’t just block you again completely without saying a word is because I asked her to give you the courtesy of a REASON this time. Since you chose, once again, to blame ME, she felt no need to continue any type of relationship with you as an adult.

I “drove you crazy?” She knew that wasn’t true because she was here. She saw all the texts and the emails you sent - then and now, and YES I still have them to prove, if nothing else, you still had my phone number which has never changed.

If you had played it cool and just stayed on topic and off of me, quit pushing her about staying down there with you, and just let her and Jayden come visit and leave, you might have had an opportunity to develop something of a friendship with her. Her boyfriends (up to and including this one who she dated briefly in high school and just got back with a couple of months ago) are almost exclusively the reason we have family issues. It’s not me, or Jerry, it’s her and her choice of life partners.

You have no proof of what you allege about me. You say you were threatened and documents were forged! Well then why didn’t someone get charged with kidnapping? Why didn’t someone get charged with forgery? Those are free services offered by the office of the prosecuting attorney. You look like a greater fool than you are when you say those things.

We own and operate three businesses! Google my name or Jerry’s and our address is the same. I’ve been here 16 years. Jerry has been here 8. You told her you didn’t know where we live, yet Jake, Lauren, and Aaron all lived here at one time and you sent her flowers (the day after) for her 16th birthday.

You said you mailed her letters that I threw away. How did you do that if you didn’t know my address? Where is your proof? You know good and well I’d NEVER do that, considering I still have all the letters you sent ME over the years. I wasn’t the problem, Sherry. You’re always too busy pointing fingers at everyone else and not stopping to consider it was YOU that needed work.

I still have the card you had attached to her 16th birthday flowers, so why would I throw anything else out? Liar. Oh, and she threw those in the dumpster as soon as she read the card. Want to see proof of that? I took pictures in case you ever did.

I never wished ill health on you and I certainly never wished anything bad on your mother. I hate that you’re having to endure this, especially right now. Maybe in the future if a similar situation should present itself, you’ll remember this somewhat unpleasant occasion and learn how to behave yourself. I doubt it. I don’t think God himself could whisk the paranoid delusions and narcissistic grandiosity from your constellation of mental illnesses.

Now, you know the rest of the story.

Nobody “kept her” from you before the adoption. She had a phone and your number then, too.

And what you said about me, regarding Jake (screenshots more likely from your own fake FB because you have no “friends” to speak of), well let me remind you of the fact that I was willing to allow you to actually live in my house at one point, and you’re guilty of doing far worse than Jake ever did. He did what he did and Bailey did what she did because they had NO maternal guidance. The MOTHER is responsible for a child’s ethical upbringing. It took Bailey years to “reword” her telling of the events in her childhood. Consequently, my husband wants a relationship with the son he has missed so badly for 6 years, plus our beautiful, darling granddaughter. He generally gets what he wants, if you weren’t already aware of that.

For the record, Google “pedophile” and see if the criteria falls under that definition anywhere. If not, perhaps both their behavior was simply “deviant” and for that, too, you may take the blame/shame. We’ve all sinned and fallen short of a glory we did not earn, but you’ve yet to admit your failures. You just like blaming everyone else.

If you’ve read this much then understand I forgave you decades ago for destroying my marriage. If you could take him, he wasn’t really there. I did not destroy anything you had because I chose not to. There were moments during your marriage when I could have easily ruined things for you but that is not in my nature. He was at my house begging to come back after I moved to Hot Springs in 97 to get away from all the drama and chaos brought by you and your flying monkeys (burnt car, slashed tires, etc.). Jerry showed me where you lived on Linda Ln when I took him home. Bailey was conceived within 10 days (by her date of birth). Yes, dear, I’ve sinned too - only I’m brave enough to face mine head on so there are no surprises to be thrown in my face later.

Life has given us both twists and turns here and there. I never misunderstood you, but you horribly misunderstood me - to your own folly, because I could have facilitated gluing Bailey and Jake back together with family therapy, in time, when they were younger. Since you chose to be hard and bitter and false, these young people will have to sort their own issues but both assured that I WILL ALWAYS be there to help both of them if they have need of me.

I hope you and Jack win a billion dollar lottery and move to Europe and forget the way home. That’s the harshest thing I’ve ever wished on you; just for you to find happiness (wherever it is and in whatever form) and stop living in the past. I don’t hate you anymore and I have never had time to “stalk” you, though it’s humorous for you to say since you have screenshots of comments I made on someone else’s profile. Lol who’s stalking whom, Ms. Morehart; or is it Mrs. Atherton, yet?

I know what I need to know, Sherry. I’ve not been hateful, I’ve been honest, and I think honesty in its raw form must sicken you. I surmise such a conclusion because of how you seem to always contort the honest answer with something that makes you seem like a weak, trapped mouse - but, advertise your prowess as a lion. Is it any wonder, then, that you’re always so confused?

I grieve the loss of your darling grandmother, your precious dear cousin, your mother’s ongoing saga with cancer, and even your own piteous state. I grieve the loss with you, and hope you recover your health and choose a different path. I’ve known you almost 3 decades now. Shame we couldn’t have been friends. I might’ve been able to help.